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We've traded mail and talked on the phone and things are going really well!! What do I do when we meet??
First off, calm down. I've been through this and talked to others who've been through it, and the first, most important thing to remember is, don't go building up big hopes and dreams until you meet! Until you actually meet someone, it's very easy to build up big fantasies in your head about how the person looks, stands, walks, etc. You can't help doing just a little of this, but try not to, and keep in mind that what you do visualize will probably be very different from reality. |
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The essence of being COOL is showing the sexy exciting elements of your personality, history, etc. So maybe don’t start with the fact you enjoy chess. With experience, (and by reading the wealth of info in my book) you will learn to NATURALLY convey sexiness and link almost ANYTHING about the woman in front of you or the situation in which you meet her to a topic that conveys that you are THE MAN.
And remember, it’s not just the WORDS, It’s EVERYTHING you do. The way you move, even the way you BREATHE. And you must lead a woman and ease her conscience all the way from getting her contact info to meeting with you to getting physical. She will not lead the way- YOU must do it or nothing will happen. You must display total CONGRUENCE in your body language, your voice, your words. And if you want to learn MORE on how to lead a woman and ease her conscience through EVERY stage, and how to exude SEX APPEAL so that she feels TOTALLY UNINHIBITED around you, then I seriously suggest you download my eBook, The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women |
This is why teasing a woman on something about her is often an effective way to start off. If you see a woman in a supermarket, and she’s selecting vegetables or chicken or whatever, you can easily tease her that if she does dishes AND cooks, she might have a chance with you.
But remember, it’s not just the TEASE. It’s the ATTITUDE you are conveying. It must be conveyed in EVERYTHING you are doing- your voice, your words, your body language. Are you RUSHING your words as if you want to get out of there? That doesn’t show a guy who LEADS, does it? That would just show a guy who RUNS. You do not HAVE to tease a woman to show you are dominant and sexy. As long as your conversation shows that you are a WINNER and comfortable, relaxed, and LEADING the way. For example, you could link something she is wearing to a fashion that you saw while traveling in an exotic part of the world to tactfully show that you are experienced with people and cultures and that talking to a new woman is no big deal to you. It's an example of something COOL. |
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